All About Him Forum

Hello everyone!
I wanna share my story. We were together for a short time and he showered me with attention and claimed he loved me. I fell head over heels for him. But I figured him out how he is manipulating me and confronted him. He had many girls on the side. Still, I gave in. After he had sex with me, he started telling me he is suddenly busy and then just left me, disappeared.

Do you know that you can "block" someone on Facebook AFTER they have blocked you first? Yes you can!
I am willing to bet that many narcs suddenly "block" you by surprise only to un-block you during a "hoovering" that you never know when it will happen. It is frustrating if you want "No Contact" but your narc "controls" the blocking and un-blocking.

You have the power to "block" your narc without him knowing you blocked him until he ends his silent treatment and decides he is going un-blocks you (and they ALWAYS do at some point) because narcs "hoover".

Hi, all. I'm a new comer here. I'm here because I'm not quite sure if I experienced a Narc but from dozens of sites I've read he sure fits the bill.

Here's my story:

I am fairly certain that I have just ended a relationship with a Narcissist. Everything seems to fit perfectly except one thing. He is not one to look for "new supply" His first wife left after a 18 year cycle of abuse. He kicker her out 20 times, according to her. Yes, we have spoken and she has been a HUGE support to me. However, he is not a cheat or a womanizing type at all. When she left him he genuinely went into a deep depression, sought God, went through counseling, etc. He remained single for 10 years. I WILL say that he engages in a lot of superficial flirty type behavior...

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My group members just brought up a smashing idea for a pay it forward during the often challenging Recovery period.

The question came up, how to I give back for all I have received on the Path Forward? I read that several of the members cannot afford the Support Group or the one on one.

Many here on the Path Forward were left financially destitute as a direct result of their relationship with the Narcissist.

Sorry, if this is not the right place to post this but I am hoping to get some answers here.

Has anyone ever heard of narcs being in relationship with other narcs? Or claiming their partner is a narc when they are actually the ones being narcissists???

Many share with me how they struggle to forgive those who have done them wrong. We forgive to release the anger and bitterness over the infraction so we will regain our peace of mind. Holding on to the betrayal, wound, or in some cases slight, keeps you bonded to the person/situation. Forgiveness sets you and them free. You may go that route or hold until every last detail of it shows on your face, your disposition, and inner core.

You cannot remain fully conscious and maintain a relationship with a narcissist. It is an impossibility. A part of your higher self must be sacrificed to remain in the relationship. This is why many are in such rough shape by the time they get out. Denying the self creates depression, low self esteem, health issues, anger, and everything else which goes along with repressing your authentic self. The narcissist will not tolerate your bliss for any length of time. Yes, in the beginning this is what attracts them to you yet, once they have you hooked, they will suck you dry.

What kind of world is this? I feel lost scared tired and crazy. God help us all.

It's been a while since I've posted anything here, and wanted to offer some hope and encouragement to those here just coming out of a relationship from being with a narcissist. A few days ago, I decided to clean out some very old emails, and ran across emails from nearly 5 years ago, when I was in the thick of leaving a toxic relationship with a narcissist. I wish I could say I only tangled with one narcissist, but I had to learn the hard way, that they are all the same.