YOU NEVER KNOW WHO AN ABUSER IS... NEVER...
YOU NEVER KNOW WHO AN ABUSER IS... NEVER...
i have an friend... an artist... from california but now lives in vermont... we'd been friends for several years... and talked mostly by internet and phone... she had been married for years to her high school sweetheart... had two children... she was very supportive of me when the psycho tried to murder me... and when i finally got him out of the house...
she was one of the few people who was TRULY supportive of me... TRULY sympathetic... and i thought at the time... how strange... because she had no first hand knowledge... she was still madly in love with her high school sweetheart... they were happy in a little house in the country in vermont...
WRONG...WRONG...WRONG.....
i hadn't talked to her at all for about a year... she'd just sort of dropped off the radar... yesterday i could NOT get her of my mind... i knew her husband that been thinking about transferring to another state... but i sent her an email anyway... telling her the psycho was dead...
she responded back in about 30 minutes... saying it was a MIRACLE that i had contacted her yesterday... that she'd been trying to find my email address... my phone number... that he'd destroyed her computer with all that info on it a year ago... then she went on to tell me how he'd been beating her... and had been for YEARS... and how he had gotten worse and worse and worse...just like the psycho... and had finally started in on the children... and how she had just yesterday decided to file a restraining order and file for divorce...
i was STUNNED... i never had a clue... ever... not a clue... that's how well she hid it...
OMG... i can remember thinking how LUCKY she was... to be married to such a NICE GUY... with a good job... who loved his family...
they're EVERYWHERE...
I hid it too
I agree...instead of shoving
so true!
That's because...
"you knew what he was like when you married him"
I have a feeling that two of