Mine too. He took it early on, I have discovered a "bait" from two months ago, from a site, from "our spot" where we used to put stuff. Correction, I used to put stuff mainly* love puddin` songs, for my Mista Jay.
And mine is not the only onw who is starting early on the Winter season! His best friend Narc does the same thing. I noticed, from yesterday until early today, his target woman (which happens to be in my friend list) changed her mood from love to hate a coupple of times!..I know well what this means..ROLLER-COASTER, NARC TRIP!
Wish all of them best of luck, from outside "the games". And to myself, as well.
My hoovering bait this time? The same old, same old "baby come back", "I wanna be with you" that I know so well. Words, only words.
I don`t believe in words anymore, I believe in facts. And love that is proven to be true.
I didn`t look back from curiosity, rather the need to escape my reality. One female psychologist said "We`d rather come back to unhealthy and poor love, than work on our personal development and growing."
I know the whole truth, I know it will never be more than this. More than promises and words from this joker. He has nothing real to offer in a relationship.
If I`d choose to answer or to go back, I am sure he`ll find a way to punish me for this "independency" and NC period, harder than ever! To teach me a "lesson", for daring to leave. I`m sure mine is not the only one planning and hoovering old sources in this period.
It`s the Narc Season dear friends, stay strong and comfortable in your new life, and close to this place!
Comparing to how shaken I used to be by his words, now I am way better. I see through. He is only bored probaby and decided to throw a "bait" to see if he catches some fish.
Well this fish is growing, and hopefully, learned the lesson!
Peace to everyone, and stay strong :-)