WONDERING IF I AM THE ONE AT FAULT

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#1 Apr 15 - 7AM
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WONDERING IF I AM THE ONE AT FAULT

I recently decided to leave my boyfriend of almost 2 years after making up and breaking up 4 times. Seems I could never do anything right, if I said something to him about the way he looked at other women when we were out I was told I was jealous. Every time we break up he shuts me completely out of his life "the silent treatment". Then in a few months he is calling me back when I almost have my life back together and am picking up the pieces and not looking back. He always seems so cold and callous like he doesn't have a soul and I always seem to put his happiness before my own. I did everything I knew to please him and it never seemed like enough. Nothing I did ever seemed good enough for him. He would say little things to me like you have a little pot belly, then when he realized it hurt my feelings say it was a joke, but sometimes the damage is already done. If I proved him wrong about something he didn't seem to like that and heaven forbid that you should critcize him in anyway, if so you better get ready for the shit storm that was coming your way. I am totally at a loss right now. Any ideas does he sound like a N or is it just me...

Apr 16 - 1PM
Goldie
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Read this

Apr 16 - 1PM (Reply to #67)
kimberly4398
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Thanks so much Goldie I am

Apr 16 - 2PM (Reply to #68)
Goldie
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Thank you

Apr 16 - 3PM (Reply to #69)
kimberly4398
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I.clicked on the.blog and

Apr 16 - 3PM (Reply to #70)
Goldie
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On the phone

Apr 16 - 3PM (Reply to #71)
kimberly4398
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Not sure how to use the PM

Apr 16 - 3PM (Reply to #72)
Goldie
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Your messages are on the right hand side of the page

Apr 16 - 4PM (Reply to #73)
sharlenemorgan
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pm

Apr 15 - 6PM
sharlenemorgan
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yes

Apr 15 - 2PM
Journey
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Kimberly, welcome to the

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Apr 15 - 3PM (Reply to #56)
kimberly4398
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I have always admitted my

Apr 15 - 5PM (Reply to #57)
Journey
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Ah yes, can completely relate

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Apr 15 - 5PM (Reply to #58)
kimberly4398
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Journey I won't have to block

Apr 15 - 5PM (Reply to #59)
Journey
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Ya, right. One thing you will

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Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #60)
kimberly4398
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You are exactly right

Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #61)
Journey
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People who tell the truth see

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Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #62)
kimberly4398
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Mine always thought people

Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #63)
Journey
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It's called projection and

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Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #64)
kimberly4398
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Yeah he called me a drunk one

Apr 15 - 2PM (Reply to #55)
Janie53
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Journey

Apr 15 - 8AM
onwithmylife
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kimberly

Apr 15 - 8AM (Reply to #44)
kimberly4398
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I am just hoping if he

Apr 15 - 2PM (Reply to #45)
tootsgee
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hiya Kimberly .. I remember

Apr 15 - 3PM (Reply to #46)
kimberly4398
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Unfortunately for the first

Apr 15 - 11PM (Reply to #53)
eyeswideopen35
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funny how all there exs are crazy!

Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #47)
Journey
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OMG!

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Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #48)
kimberly4398
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I left him we were living at

Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #49)
Journey
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Your instincts knew... that

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Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #50)
kimberly4398
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I know I did the right thing

Apr 15 - 6PM (Reply to #51)
Journey
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Don't worry, you will get

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