Withholding sex abuse

Every time you post something about the covert Narc withholding sex it blows my mind. Mine of course was so extremely passive-aggressive and cowardly he deserves a category of his own. To imagine that a man who had been falling over himself to please me, because I had him back after having left before, would then withdraw sexually to punish me for a minor disagreement (that naturally he had caused). A man with whom I'd had the best sex life one could wish for for nearly twelve years. No matter what else, how many OW, whether he'd broken his leg or I'd been running a high fever, our sex life was great. It had been the glue that kept us together. Then he goes and ruins it by - oh no, not refusing - just being passive, disinterested, no passion. When I asked what this was about I got to hear about being tired, feeling drained....blablabla. Unheard of and this was a holiday! Meanwhile I understand this was the only way he could get at me. No gaslighting and tricks ever worked. I'm narc-proof in that respect thanks to my childhood Narcs. He had just not figured that this sort of punishment would cause me to leave for good. Typical self-destructive acting of the covert Narc he excels at, driving away the last person he had in his life. Goodbye Narc.