wishing you all recovery

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#1 Aug 19 - 1AM
ziggy
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wishing you all recovery

I wanted to say this site has been invaluable to me, especially in the initial weeks of my separation from the narcissist.
I would have known very little of the reasons for my situation without it, and would have found it much more difficult than it was without this resource.
The support, information and advice I received would have been difficult to come by any other way.
I know this site and all those involved in its creation, continuance and endurance are very special, knowledgeable and self sacrificing. And I am sorry it was their own pain that initiated it, and hope an assumption was never made I was ungrateful.
All of you bloggers are absolute survivors and I know this site will serve you well and recovery will be a certainty.
I, on the other hand, have had a difficult time dealing with all the pain, despair and fear the narcissists have caused in your lives. I can feel the anguish and believe this is part of my anger. I am very angry for the pain you are all in and although I know from this site I shouldn't bother, I have a lot of anger towards the personality disordered that brought it.
Maybe, if there is a reason I can find for what I went through, it is I must channel my anger into something positive. I cannot self heal my anger, like I know most of you can and will do. I am not a healer either, but want to prevent this from happening to others and their families. I don't know the answers or advice to give those who have already been affected by it and feel helpless I can't make everything go away for all of you.
It is completely tragic to me, more so when I have to see it face-to-face in the family courts. It seems these PD's, addicts and abusers simply do what they do to families and walk without consequence because the courts don't know how to deal with them.
This makes me fearful for the future and I will put my energy to advocating for the women and children in these situations at the early stages.
I am simply too driven and angry to give or receive healing advice.
My final advice to all of you, is stick with this site and heal. Take it easy on yourselves and make this world a better place!!!!!
Thank you all,
Wishing you all the love in the world.
Ziggy.

Aug 19 - 3PM
Trixy
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come back any time

Aug 19 - 1PM
Goldie
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No assumptions on my part

Aug 19 - 2AM
Brit
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School of hard knocks