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Will he ever go away?

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#1 Jan 5 - 4AM
Emma
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Will he ever go away?

Why do they come back just when you feel you're starting to forget them?

I haven't seen narky since way before christmas. Haven't had contact with him for about three weeks or so, as I found out it was him who sat outside my house and changed the password on my router so I couldn't access the Internet. I know it was him, he was the only one who knew the password to it...of course, being the liar he is, he denies doing it. I texted him,, rang him, asking him to change the password back to what it was. Of course, I received the ST. And Ive had no contact since

He's blocked on my phone, email, fb the lot. And it's been a blessing having peace and no stress. A new year and a new start without the nark in my life. Or so I thought.

Two nights ago, he sent me a request for a game he knows I play and tried to start a conversation. I didn't feel comfortable so I cancelled the game.

Will he ever go away?!

I've tried to block all avenues for him to contact me yet he still finds a way. I just want to move on!

Jan 5 - 12PM
HardToBelieve
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Same here..

I wonder the same.. Just as I feel like I have gotten him off my mind he comes haunting back like a ghost from the dead. Like my friend said: they do this to make sure they are on your mind. They want to let us know that they are still ALIVE and BREATHING. But oh no.. To me, he is dead. Buried. Rotting. Under 6 feet of concrete. If I keep telling myself he never existed then so be it.
Jan 5 - 12PM
Anari
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You can always call your

You can always call your provider for internet and tell them you have lost your password cuz your system crashed and get them to get you a new one. Idiot.
Jan 5 - 8AM
Used
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I second what hunter said,

I second what hunter said, tho exn hasent gone away in that he lives near me...when he see,s me....HE TURNS HIS BACK.....He knows its over.... when we are truly done, I believe they know....but until they do....IGNORE HIM AS YOU ARE DOING...WELL DONE...
Jan 5 - 8AM
Sparrow
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He will try to break you, in

He will try to break you, in every way he can. Don't give in you are doing a wonderful job! Keep up the great work!
Jan 5 - 7AM
Hunter
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He will.. Just continue not

He will.. Just continue not to answer .. Hunter
Jan 5 - 7AM
It.Was.All.Abou...
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I have the same question

I'm sorry that you're going through this. They do seem to know when you're feeling well. Then they come back around with some cruel trickery to try to hurt you more. For what? Being disobedient and unwilling to take more abuse? I work with mine, which sucks. She casually asked me to a new year's eve outing. To the outside world, it looks like a normal, work friend invitation. I politely declined. I found out that one of the people on the outing was her new, workplace girlfriend. I'd call her a victim, but I think she's a narc too . Why this attempt to punish me? She saw me looking happy with an attractive woman. She was afraid to loose whichever chess piece I am in her fucked up game.