why would Narc re-friend a mutual friend of ours on FB?
why would Narc re-friend a mutual friend of ours on FB?
First I want to say hello to everyone- have missed you all!!
I think some may remember I posted- when Facebook changed their profile settings that the Narc was unfriending 'friends' we had in common.
Then a few months later he blocked me....and I could careless other than I then couldnt see where he was lurking, so I blocked all his known email accounts.
Well, today thru an alternate account I have on there(that i created to interact with people with my similar health issues, without using my real name) I see that Narc has now 're-friended' this mutual friend.(she also has the same health issue..and lives 10 min from me)
there is no logic with dealing with the personality disordered... but I am now a bit concerned that if he changes the email address linked to his FB account he could see my posts. Although I do have everything set as friends only. this is a bit too close for comfort. why even re-friend her ...to add one more friend to his list? Her and I dont really talk...I dont trust her really after the whole Narc thing... but I do enjoy some of her posts- so dont want to delete her
I have been doing really well regarding Narc... most days dont even think of him... it is really amazing , but one day I woke up and it was like he never existed... NC really is the only way that I got to this point..and posting almost daily on this board. I have focused on ME...things that make me happy..and refocused on my health..and doing everything I can to improve.
but last few days I have been getting a vibe that somehow Narc may try to get in contact... and this FB thing has me a tad concerned. sigh. I have reached the point where I see Narc's life as a sad existence and I am so glad that I can be alone in my own skin. and I am not a part of his deception or one of his slaves....
..when I look to the future I see myself happy... with someone who loves me...no longer with Narc.
I am still healing, but at a much better place...and it feels great :-)
Barbara- but wouldnt
destiny
UN-FRIEND HER!
sigh, I hate Narcs!!! I
destiny
destiny
ah facebook...
Thanks quietutde...glad to
just to hurt and confuse you