Why? Trying to Understand Their Motivation

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#1 Feb 17 - 2AM
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Feb 17 - 10AM
Piscesdream
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This makes total sense. The

This makes total sense. The site states, “Because some people mistake kindness and niceness for weakness, and they prey on weak people.” That is very true. I know firsthand that when you stand up for yourself, they back down. This also might explain why I showed up to our hang-out spot and he left- even after he threatened me not to show up there anymore. Coward. And I agree with the jealous input, I do think they are envious and jealous of our ability to feel happiness and love.
Feb 17 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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envy

they consider our emotions to be weakness, they aren't the LEAST BIT jealous of them! but they do have pathological envy for humans: http://www.chameleongroup.org.uk/npd/narcissist.html ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Feb 17 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
rache
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My ex N

even told my son that i was naive.They want a woman they can just use.My son said the ex N didnt want a woman-just a puppet that he could stick his hand up its ass and make it say and do as he told it.
Feb 17 - 9AM
peacewarrior
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Thank you for the link. I

Thank you for the link. I also read about jealousy and envy which is enlightening also.
May 17 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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Why? Trying to Understand Their Motivation

READ LINK IN TOP POST ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller