Why the Sex can be so damn good with a Narc

Arwen, you`re feeling sorry for the devil here. To some of those people, I mean yes, there are horrible things hat happen to them early on, and they don`t have a chance to understand what happened. But really now, not to all of those cold people, some I heard have it in their genes, from narcisistic parents. One classic narcisist is Axl Rose, the lead singer and frontman of rock band Guns`n Roses, maybe you heard of it, had big success in the 90`s as a band. But later on, even his colleagues couldn`t stand his rage and crises, and decided to quit the band! And they were guys, his friends.. His girlfriends, one of them, don`t really remember her name exactly, the one he composed the famous ballad for, "Sweet child of mine", he has beaten her many times, even raped her. When she tried to eave, for the I-don`t-know-what-time, he threathen to kill himself. And her, as an empath, felt sorry for him. That`s when the wrong things start..he had so much rage and anger, and turned it all on her. Whe she finanly left, she was spiritually dead, left with no money, no house, no possesions of his..just left. And Thank God she did, she didn`t wanted to see him, or hear from him ever since. And now she has two beautiful children, and she`s most probably married to a more deent man.. In her words she said, in the beginning and not only, she tried to comfort him, give him the love he never had, compensate for the abusive background he had. I`m giving him as an example, because you said some Ns have abusivive parents and all, and that is the reason they are how they are. Axl has been molested at the age of 2 by his own father, and later by his stepfather. Didn`t probably had much of a relationship with his mother either, but had lots of potential. And he left home, and made his own band. But everything had to go the way he wanted to go. If some guy in the public wear a t-shirt he didn`t liked, he stopped in the middle of the concert, walked and didn`t care about his colleagues, his fans, anything..he has abused and beaten all his girfriends, at least the ones people know about. The one I talked before, accused him of beating her when she was even pregnant, and then lost the baby..whether it`s true or not, Ns are capable of that too. Not to throw all the balme on them, I don`t assume myself, or Axl`s "sweet child" was perfect. But in the same combination, two people who haven`t been loved in a healthy way, sometimes it tends to get very destructive. But not to paint the Devil black as night, Axl said about composing one of the most beautiful known rock ballads, that yes, it was about his then girlfriend, and no, he hasn`t composed much love songs, because in his life there weren`t many things to be happy about. So, as much as someone with so much rage against females can do, he "loved" her. But much of it was a nightmare, like so many of the stories you can read on here..I think her name was Erin by the way, if you type it on google "Axl and Erin" you can find parts of her story. All in all, please be all careful, when you tend to feel sorry for your N ( including me haha ), because afteral they come from the Dark side, they have evil deep ingrained in them, whether they learned it, or were born that way.