Why the narc will never be able to destroy my belief in love.....

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#1 Jul 4 - 5PM
blessingindisguise
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Why the narc will never be able to destroy my belief in love.....

I think many of the narcs out there have a goal to destroy their exes' belief in love and to destroy their spirits. They will NEVER be able to do this. I've been so fortunate with the amount of love given to me from family, friends, neighbors, kindness from strangers....it's too late to convince me otherwise.

To me, God is love. It is within me to give love to others and to receive love in return. This is the essence of who I am. I will never give up on love, joy and happiness. Do you know why? I already possess it within me. Not one other human being can take it away. I believe that for each and every one of us on this board.

I will forever continue to live my life being who I am. I tend to smile a lot and will continue to do so. As horrible as this situation has been, I don't regret doing my best to love this person who was so undeserving. I don't regret trying to love his family. To me, it is better to have loved and lost than to never love at all. I will watch out for those red flags in my next serious relationship, but I will continue to love and take risks. I believe this is part of our life experience and the greatest power is within loving ourselves and giving and receiving love to and from others. Love is the most powerful force in the universe and I will never, ever give up on it.

Jul 5 - 5PM
fooled no longer
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absolutely agree, we had big

absolutely agree, we had big love in us, thats what he saw since he has none. we cannot let go of that, everyday a little bit of that love comes back to me and my spiritual relationship is coming back too. thanks for sharing.xxx
Jul 4 - 10PM
fearofuncertainty
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proud of you blessingindisguise

every single word of yours enlightened me. i also love with a big heart and dive in my 200% to love although it turns out to be an undeserving person. i would still want to be brave like you to venture into healthy and good relationships if i am given a chance. i believe good people reap good fruits; it's all karma! big hug!!!
Jul 4 - 10PM
Steph
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This is such an empowering

This is such an empowering post! Every word of it! Thank you so much for sharing it. xoxo, Steph
Jul 4 - 8PM
Redhead1
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Very good post and I am right

Very good post and I am right there with you! I feel even more love since I am away from him. I had started shutting down. He once said to me, "you will never want another man after all I have done to you"(that was in one of his two lucid moments, lol). Thats what he wanted me to think, not what I was thinking. I know the newbies don't see it, but we are all going to be better than before. Its a long horrible journey and I am not totally over it. At this point, it has been worth it. Didnt think I would say that this time last year.