Im going to be honest Im coming here for support...this is my safe haven...where everyone 'gets it' not just narc... but I think because all of us have been thru therapy(well most of us have) we know how to communicate...we know how not to put others on the deffensive(and if we do we correct it...simple)
well...I posted earlier this week about the online slimball of a guy and how I had to overly defend myself. and even with info I presented yesterday it was countered
and now today and email was sent to the site basically notifying everyone about what slimeball did(yea they said it is because the guy wasnt a threat until he created the fake ID) so to me that means even though he said what he did...wasnt a threat until he angered them.
I have to say I am beyond worn out from having to defend my feelings on this...to the point much like I had to with Narc.
Tonite- I was told I still am not thinking right (gee thanks for the support, and thanks for saying something that puts someone on the deffensive immediately)
So, for some reason this has really affected me much more than Narc... I think it is because I am getting over Narc for good... and now this incident happend and rattled me a bit and I was left undersupported (by people who swear they are my friends) hahaha.
my therapist is on vacation- and although he isnt the best regarding Narc he is pretty good with this kind of stuff and non violent communication. and would be able to give me an opinion instantly about what is going on with all of this. (I know it is not me) but just sick of being told that it is.
Im going to take the focus and direct back to me again (I do so much better when the attention is there) Im just tired of bumping into these types...who think it is all me.. sick of it.
thanks for letting me vent (in a safe place) even if you disagree no one here fights with me.