Why I have a hard time surrendering to the co-dependency theory....
Why I have a hard time surrendering to the co-dependency theory....
Why I have a hard time letting y’all be “Co-dependent
Historically, the concept of codependence "comes directly out of Alcoholics Anonymous, part of a dawning realization that the problem was not solely the addict, but also the family and friends who constitute a network for the alcoholic."[2] It was subsequently broadened to cover the way "that the codependent person is fixated on another person for approval, sustenance, and so on."[2] As such, the concept overlaps with, but developed in the main independently from, the older psychoanalytic concept of the "'passive dependent personality' ... attaching himself to a stronger personality."[3]
Some would retain the stricter, narrower dictionary definition of codependency, which requires one person to be physically or psychologically addicted, such as to heroin, and the second person to be psychologically dependent on that behavior.
-Wikipedia
That being said, note clearly, not only did it come from AA BUT they theorized that “Part of the problem was NOT the addict but also the family and friends that constitute a network for the alcoholic” BLAME/PROJECTION…
THEN though spin…
”It was subsequently BROADENED (cause it would reach a wider audience – follow the money trail) AND the concept (conveniently) OVERLAPS with, but is “independent” (humph)…from an OLDER PSYCHOANALYTIC CONCEPT of “Passive Dependent”…
NO WAY!!!
(You mean they didn’t re-invent the wheel)?
Now, I ask you…do you feel you can be cured of your co-dependency? Really think about this…do you believe you can heal? If you answered yes I have very bad news…
SEE…the older concept…that “Passive Dependent” which really what the hell is the difference…
co-dependent/passive dependent, sounds like the same stuff to me…well…guess what…
Dependent personality disorder is one of several personality disorders listed in the newest edition of the standard reference guide: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, also known as the DSM-IV-TR.
AND…you will note, that for the most part, in 2013 there is a very good chance that some of the personality disorders will be streamlined under the umbrella of psychopath and that they are discussing this issue.
Nothing is set in stone – but if it were me…and yea, I’m not a professional…I’d be a little cautious putting myself in a box where some shrink will have an institution justifying A. Not treating me and B. Finding me incurable and C. Calling me not co-dependent or passive dependent but Psychopath...I don't think you'll be thinking it works for you then...
Just stay open, that’s all I’m saying if you’re going to read do it carefully.
I took a class in psychology in college. We had these cases we had to read. It was a psych class nothing major. Each week the professor would give a list of criteria before we knew what the illness was – he wanted to see how clearly we could analyze the information and later he would disclose the “mystery” illness…every week we were calling ourselves EVERYTHING because if you read into something enough you can make it fit.
Well, the last week low and behold, he gave us the last diagnostic criteria case…and wouldn’t you know it…approximately 85 percent of the class volunteered that they believed that they suffered from no other than Mental Retardation. That was an eye opener for me…and YES…I too raised my hand that day.
Hey Guys
I am no follower..i am 100% a
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
Michelle
if your "six figure" income
Michelle and sick of it I am whoever lol
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
haha! That made me laugh. I
NO Response. It was explained
It doesnt matter how you call it
Jen
sick of it yes thanks I am better
Jen79
now jen is wrong about her
and, I never called her
staying strong
Jen
Michelle, its called the dark night of the soul
Jen
Jen
Jen...
We didnt say cure..but we can
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
Here is a good article...
I'm not talking about an article
Sickofit
Michelle whats your views on
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
I'm strong
its already in there
Sickofit
This article again proves
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
Mind blowing I amazed this is
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
If we were smarter than,