WHY DOES THIS HURT SO BAD STILL

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#1 Mar 11 - 10AM
rahner1357
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WHY DOES THIS HURT SO BAD STILL

I finally have started to feel a little normal these past few weeks since I have gone no contact with my N after 13 years of common law. Kicked him out when I found out he was cheating, yet with held sex from me for 7 years???? Said he had a problem yet can have this affair with a girl 40 when he is 57? That one hurt!!!! Anyhow, I just found out he went to Vegas and married her last week on the same day that was our Anniversary? He has not told a single person at work (we work togther) or his family? I found out from his 4th ex that she had a call from the marriage licence place as he never changed his address. That's how I found out. He did the same to me, took me to Vegas anmd begged me at every chaple to marry him but I wouldn't. We had only dated a few months. OMG!!!! Why does this hurt so bad!!!! Now I did a stupid thing that I regret....I text him and congratulated him on his 5th wife. Hs reply was thank you, I'm happy with my new life. Yet when I kicked him out 7 months ago, he cried for two months how he didn't love her but he had no place to go, said it wasnt what I thought and still wasnot having sex with her. Why the lies? Why the with holding sex on me for all those years yet has it with her???? Just need some answers to help me cop, Im a mess again and don't understand these feelings. Can anyone help me to see it?

Mar 11 - 4PM
talktothehand
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Rahner

Mar 11 - 12PM
Janie53
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Rahner

Mar 11 - 12PM
talktothehand
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Rahner

Mar 11 - 11AM
lessonlearned
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why???

Mar 11 - 11AM
Used
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rahner1357

Mar 11 - 11AM
evonjohn
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As much as it hurts, you are

Mar 11 - 11AM
Hunter
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ANSWER??I think 5 wives

Mar 11 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
rahner1357
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Hunter, I put mry story on here when this first happened.

Mar 11 - 12PM (Reply to #10)
Goldie
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Are you even reading what you are writing here?

Mar 11 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
IncognitoBurrito
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Child

Mar 11 - 2PM (Reply to #6)
rahner1357
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As I said in my original

Mar 11 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
IncognitoBurrito
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From what

Mar 11 - 2PM (Reply to #7)
spinning
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rahner, dearheart, listen up

spinning

Mar 11 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
rahner1357
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thank you dear heart, your

Mar 11 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
talktothehand
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Rahner

Mar 11 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
rahner1357
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Thanks for your comment