Why do you like/love me?
Why do you like/love me?
I've read in several posts now that many of you were asked this question by your narc.
I personally don't remember seriously asking anyone I've ever been in a relationship with why they loved me, nor do I remember hearing it from any of my other ex's, but I do remember my ex-narc asking me why I loved him the first time I said those three words.
Do you think it is predominately a narc/P question?
Is it also fairly common for non-narcs to ask?
I realize we are already 'hooked' by the time we might say those words and he/she might ask us that question, but is it maybe a red flag that should alert us to pay more attention, even in the midst of a relationship that might still in the honeymoon phase?
I'm curious to hear your observations about this.
Thanks!
My ExN asked me that too!
Mine would ask me
I read the baby thing is a
sick of it where did you read that??
Hi Safyre
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Hi Journey
Both times he said to me
How NORMAL guys handle it....
I hope not.
Asking
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oh, wait.
He didn't love me
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Journey...
It was always "you don't take me seriously"
Grateful
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Some reflections on Cliff's Notes and Hallmark cards
Oh how I wish he would ask
Do you love me
That is messed up!
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Why do you love me
OMG
Weird question
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Yep
My ex asked me all the
Boost to the ego
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Journey :)
Ava
Right on the money
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Journey - actually that's a damn good point
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Let me say first
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Journey - thank you for your amazing words
Ava