Why do the narcs win and the victims lose everything ?

So he is on girlfriend no 2 - the sane girlfriend he would have cheated on with me if I had not reminded him about her - some wks ago - b4 he took her to Cornwall to stay in a cottage with my son for 2 wks! Now they are booking up to go to Spain - while I pay the mortgage his name remains on with no financial assistance from him! Struggling on the breadline! At best all I can hope is that I can get the damn mortgage in my own name and that my credit has improved enough to do this -
My 2nd application for transfer of title! He goes to see his new girlfriend on weekends - she comes down - they take my son out playing happy families - I don't even date cos no one wants to date someone who has no weekends or time free from a child - he grows n sells pot and my solicitor says there's very little Social Services would do because my son is not "at risk" ... I work 4 days a wk - and I'm still broke - my divorce is 3 months a way from being final and I've got nothing - he even came last wk to take my kitchen table and chairs because they were given to us by his family - he can't even leave me the damn kitchen table - every last drop of what he distinguishes of his things - it's soul rape - he moved out nearly 5 yrs ago too - he has it in for me - knowing I'm living destitute - the mother of his child - while he had the new relationship - the easy job with high income - holidays and days out - I can barely afford the bus fare to go see my own mother! And there is no justice ! Legal aid doesn't cover disputes - he won't get his comeuppance and he won't pay - I had done such a lot of forgiveness work but it's pointless now - the anger is cooking inside me - I keep thinking the tables will turn but they don't - I'm lonely and empty and he gets to keep treading on me with failure to stick to arrangements and abusive obstructive texts and voice messages! No contact is impossible with all the child care arrangements! I have no rights and no one has my back! I thought by now it would be easier but it isn't ! It's worse! Why do they get what they deserve??? Why??? Why do the narcs crap on people and get away with it?

Oct 20 - 4PM
Goldie
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I do not agree with this statement

Oct 16 - 2AM
Luv2bme
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I'm waiting..

Oct 16 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
Qing Yuan
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I understand and share your pain

Oct 16 - 2AM (Reply to #11)
Luv2bme
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and..

Oct 15 - 8AM
Qing Yuan
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thanks for your comments

Oct 15 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
Journey
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You are focusing way, way,

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Oct 15 - 2AM
Pumpkin
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Actually in most cases

Pumpkin

Oct 15 - 12AM
Done sourcing
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You won't be free until you

Oct 14 - 1PM
Journey
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Wow, I'm sorry it is such a

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Oct 13 - 9PM
Phoenyx
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karma?

Oct 13 - 5AM
thebigpayback
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i struggled with this but

Oct 12 - 8PM
divorcedfromevil
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I struggle too

Oct 12 - 5PM
MyTurnToBe Free
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Win or lose