Why do i feel guilty for egnoring his calls?
Why do i feel guilty for egnoring his calls?
He called twice today,and left a messege that he wants to get together soon. I've been doing the NC thing for a couple months now, other than a set-back when i got together and talked with him 2 wks ago.
I was with my bf for a yr and a half of him doing whatever he feels like,and letting the relationship go down the drain,despite all my openess with him about his lack of caring, and my attempts at trying to get him to GIVE to the relationship.I thought when i took time away from him,that it would shake him up but it didnt seem to faze him.nope. He said "Oh, well I'm sorry you lost your hope of things working out between us.I havent,but i still need to focus on getting better and work on myself.Anyway, about me....bla bla bla bla"
Im almost sure that if he really loved me, he wouldnt be okay with only seeing me and hearing from me once every 2 or 3 wks.No, he would be crying at my doorstep promising to change,and missing me,wouldnt he?
I can honestly say that Ive done my best and everything i knew to make this relationship work out,and Ive kept nothing from him. I told him repeatedly the things he does and doesnt do that are ruining the relationship,and he gives me lip-service but keeps it up.
Why do i feel mean and guilty for missing his calls?
he doesnt feel what we feel-
"they dont feel hurt that we egnore their calls"
We did get inside their
Block them
Change number
Guilty for missing his calls?
Reddley
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"Think about all the times that you were hurting,reaching out ..
Dee - this is so bang on. But
I do too. It eats me up.
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When real people make
"when real ppl make mistakes they dont promise to change at our
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