When they don't really care

He never cared about me. It was all about sex. He didn't even want to take me out. Why? Because, just like the last Narc, he had OW that I didn't know about at first. He swore that he was completely unattached. He seemed so sweet, but when I asked to be taken out, compared myself to her (who he takes out 2 times per week, but he swears they are just friends), he freaked out. He is terrified that she will find out about me. He will NOT admit he loves this girl (they even share a dog). I'm his booty-call, at least I was.

Second Narc in a row. Both lied about OW. The first one nearly killed me emotionally, the second one shattered any progress I had made.

Vicki, Narc Magnet