When even those who love you don't get it?
When even those who love you don't get it?
Hey people,
I'm a bit of a mess right now. I got the courage to leave the relationship, have flown back to my country and now I wonder if it's best to have stayed where I was.
People mean well but when I hear things like, grow up and take personal responsibilty, I told you so, you have a victim mentality, be an adult, it's all about you isn't it... you feel very hurt. Even jokes about how stupid I was to be with him cut me to the core at the moment.
My mum is going through some mental health issues and can't seem to handle the situation, it's making her angry and frustrated at me. I didn't know she was like that until I got here. She might be having some kind of breakdown. She can't understand why I stayed with him, no-one can so they can't understand why I'm not jumping up and down with joy to be rid of him. She sees me checking my phone and gets angry. I know I have to move on, but sometimes we do things like that as we come out of a relationship. It doesn't mean I will contact him. It's been 10 days no contact and I'm proud of that.
I don't want to become bitter. what should I do? Is it better to keep it to yourself sometimes? Especially if those you ran to are going through tough times themselves. I think it's making my mum sick to hear about it. Does anyone have a similar situation?
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when family & friends don't or won't understand