When are we going to finally get it?
When are we going to finally get it?
I just spoke to my girlfriend from Florida who has been married to an absolute bastard of a narc for 15 years. He is moving out of the marital tomorrow morning after their son goes to school and then packing it up to head back to New Jersey to start a new life with a woman he met on line.
When are we going to get it?
I cant tell you how fed up I am with these animals that bring such heart ache and despair to us. How come they have such power over us? How come we allow them to do to us that we wouldn't allow any one else to do? Why have we given them a license to do these things to us? I would love to know........as I am sure you all would. I feel like screaming "Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain" just as it was asked in the Wizard of Oz. The man, Oz, or who he pretended to be was unmasked at that moment in the movie. He is a meglomaniac, a narcissist. All the while, poor Dorothy had access to what she wanted,the whole time............ all she wanted to do was to go home...........was that asking too much? Obviously.............
I am curious to find out what each and every one of our stories truly is..........not during the relationship with the narc. It's all the same, yet different...............I am curious to know what happened to us BEFORE we encountered the narc that we welcomed into our world. I believe that it is important for each of us to acknowledge that something traumatic occurred shortly before meeting our narcs, that left us wide open to there predatory ways..........I will go first......
I met my narc a couple months after my husband left me. Most of you know the story, if not, in a nut shell, my husband told me while laying in our marital bed, me rubbing his back asking him if he was ok, turning to me to tell me he was interesting in "pursuing" another woman. Plain and simple........the very next day he packed his things and left me for her. I was in shock, had no idea what happened considering we had a blissful marriage. Shortly afterwards, I met the most dangerous man I could have ever encountered. He saw that I was crippled, pounced on me like a lion on his hunt. Caught me, hook, line and sinker................we all have a story, before our narc. That is what I feel is the key to our recovery..........let's look back at what we were really DEALING with, before these predators came into our lives.
Before the Narc
sara
What happened before we welcomed narc?
My point exactly! We all
Seven years is too mature!!!
Read my story
Sexless Marriage
Can relate. Still with
My Mother had just died
Moment of weakness
Me, too.
funny enough
sparrow,
Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain
It's true, Sparrow
I agree, Well. Narcs are
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.