What Role would YOU choose
What Role would YOU choose
THE OTHER WOMAN: Always HURT and in PAIN over his GF he is living with, wondering why it could not be you he comes home to and shares a life with. Wondering what she has that you dont have, why you were only good enough to spend your time with him horizontally, betrayed and violated and lied to only to be left with broken and empty promises.
THE GIRLFRIEND: Devotes her life to a man she loves and clings to desperately, cooks his meals, cleans his home, cares for him when he is sick, accepts he is self centered, compromises what she REALLY wants so she can have him in her life. Behind her back he is cheating,(in their bed they share) having many long term relationships at the same time, sexually neglecting her intimate needs ,D&D's her LIES TO HER 24-7, uses her for secondary supply, sits down to a wonderful meal she has cooked just after he has screwed another woman at some cheap motel, half the time he only gives her sex to make her feel loved so she stays, she could be used as a beard, image, front, or all of the above. She is also wondering what the OW have that she doesnt have.
Which role looks better and which role would you be happier in? Here is my thought the only thing she has that I will never have, She gets to see the lying sick piece of shit garbage everyday and I dont.
My point being, there is no role that is a good place to be in their lives, do you honestly think they are cuddled up in front of the fireplace kissy kissy? He is whispering sweet chants of love in her ear and they make love 24-7 and CANT WAIT to run home and see her? The only reason he will RUN home to see her is because he is running late from being with someone else!!!! Do you think a sex addict enjoys having the SAME stuff waiting for him every night? I THINK NOT. Those are the roles you have to choose from - not very glamorous is it?
There is no choice, this is a no brainer I dont want to be his madonna or his whore on the side. There is a better place for me in this life and it "Aint" with a psychopath.
Back on the NC wagon and moving on, by the way just so you know I was feeling Mentally healthy with NC, and it took TWO episodes of contact to start seeing my mind shift again, I am NOT going back to that - I looked back and took a little peek to what my life was like once and I cant believe I lived that way, NEVER AGAIN
Great post!
We have no choice..they pic
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
I was the dense girlfriend
GREAT POST!!!!!!!!!!
Right ON!!!!!!
Or we can choose to be alone,
I like
OW and GF - good points
The one that got away
Madonna or the Whore it all
The OW
I like this thread - thanks to whoever started it
Yes it will...