What is N Wife material

This may be a dumb question to some simply because these freaks aren't normal and don't choose wives for the same reasons normal men do....BUT....what are they looking for when they choose a wife? I continuously have to slap myself back into reality when I begin to wonder why I couldn't have been good enough to marry. Even though I'm lucky not to have been chosen, something inside me still wonders. Do you all have any insight? Who makes a good wife for an N?

I also read that they fear intimacy. My N told me he breaks up with his women when things become too good I guess that was one truth he told. Why is intimacy and becoming close so scary for them? Is it because they fear us finding them out? It's not until we are close that their true colors begin to surface.