What I've learned so far - He's not going to stop. He's a psychopath.

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#1 Apr 5 - 3AM
abreva
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What I've learned so far - He's not going to stop. He's a psychopath.

This post is going to be a bit unfocused, because my brain is scrambled from recent interaction with Dr. Dweeb (EXNH-Psychopath).

What I've learned so far from being on this forum for 3 months.
I'm asserting, but I'm also asking for validation/clarification - do I really have this right?

- He's not going to stop poking, harassing, waring. I have got to get used to it. The psychopath is going to continue to fight me because he can.

- My best defense is to Ignore him, stay LC. Have other people do the custody exchange for me so that I interact as little as possible. Use authorities (School/Doctor) to intervene, enforce, communicate as much as I can.

- Document as best I can for my defense as a mother and to protect my children. (Documentation takes up so much TIME - I really resent it - how to do it without it ruining my mothering experience? Pity Party Alert: Does he really get to destroy everything?)

We are in the 5th month - Post Custody Settlement - and the man will not calm down. On day 1 of the custody settlement he left me a threatening voicemail.

He has been engaged for at least 1 month, and is writing me "I Love You" emails. Long ones. He's a psychopath.

My goal is to keep him in a box, and make that box smaller and smaller.
It is a small smooth cardboard box.
I'm not letting him out.

He seems enraged that he can't get to me. That I won't respond. He's freaking out, right? It's scary. He writes me long emails about how he loves me and how I shouldn't be scared of him. OK, ex-husband, THAT is scary. I respond to nothing.

He's getting supply/attention/interaction juice going right now, because I contacted the Parent Coordinator to get Dr. Pscyhopath to stop with the crazy email harassment. Dr. Psychopath's latest poke/retaliation is to tell the PC that he doesn't think that the PC should act as a counselor between us. So, let me get this straight, Dr. Psychopath thinks he gets to write crazy long-winded pontificating insulting abusive mind-bending emails to me forever? I can't even make sense of his last email -- Hopefully the PC will notice this insanity and do something about it. If not, I guess I'll just have to read this garbage from Dr. Psychopath until the kids are grown. I can do it. I just don't want to.

Apr 5 - 2PM
Deidre99
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You know my thoughts, abreva.

Apr 5 - 6PM (Reply to #11)
shock and awe.some (not verified)
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right on D

Apr 5 - 8PM (Reply to #10)
abreva
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I appreciate it Deirdre - and I like your 2 cents.

Apr 5 - 9AM
agnesmurphy17
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Advice

Apr 7 - 12AM (Reply to #8)
apple
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Agnes...

Apr 5 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
abreva
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I appreciate your advice, Agnes

Apr 5 - 6AM
Janie53
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I don't know if the parent

Apr 5 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
abreva
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Thanks, I'm trying that.

Apr 5 - 3AM
abreva
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And another thing,

Apr 5 - 5AM (Reply to #2)
bgirl
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Abreva you sound like you are

Apr 5 - 10AM (Reply to #3)
abreva
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Thank you so much