what is it they think they are accomplishing

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#1 Aug 1 - 11PM
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what is it they think they are accomplishing

everyone of us could probably do what they do, we could juggle lots of men, in your case james women, sorry we are attractive, witty, smart, successful but what sustains a person living a life like that? WOW look at me I have three guys that I have on the hook, mine probably has more sex thrown at him than he knows what to do with. Probably has them lined up and marks on his calendar which ones are due for some services from him, I mean if we REALLY wanted a life like that we could do it, of course we have emotions and a conscience so that would come into play, guess we could be players at best. I think about that and I have NO interest in that lifestyle of course I am not a sex addict either or perverted so that is a big part of their drive. I could not spend my time plotting out how I could get my next victims in my circle. They have accomplished nothing in their life, NOTHING would the eulogy at their funeral be something like this, and may so and so rest in peace and so may all the victims he destroyed have closure now that he is not living. What would they say nice about him, nobody really cares what you did in your life as far as work, or what you had, its all about what you gave of yourself to others and that is what you leave behind for others to remember you by. They remember your character and what kind of person you were. They should all be placed in a pine box then burned so they dont take up any more space in our land

Aug 1 - 11PM
Barbara (not verified)
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just this

their brains are wired differently and one thing is that they can NOT... can NOT think long term. They care about ONE THING - getting their needs met RIGHT NOW Coming in a close number Two - protecting THEIR reality at all cost. Period. Accomplish? Why accomplish? Let other people do that! They are far too 'superior' to ACCOMPLISH anything. Their mere presence should be ACCOMPLISHMENT enough. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily Online Coaching for Victims of Narcissists/ Psychopaths
Aug 2 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
cynthia (not verified)
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couldnt agree more

i was always told, how dare you ask anything of them, you dont ask questions or anything of me, I will ask the questions and when i call you you better answer so i know you are still hooked, oh i will toss you a bone now and then and some crumbs to keep you believing but not much more. when you ask questions you are misbehaving and i wont tolerate it just play along with me at all times. Mine always said when you are off the rag and are done pouting call me, ya i was always on the rag or i was such a depressed person, or emotional - whatever
Aug 2 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
Beachcolors
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You are both dead

You are both dead on...... They are an accomplishment! They exist and are the master of all things when it comes to the people in their lives. That's what they want...power in the moment..now and always. They think not of the future because controlling the present takes all of their evil brain power. Mine actually believed that his mere presence should have been enough to make me happy and completely fulfilled. When I had the nerve to ask for something I needed he would feel attacked. When I wouldn't play his game he felt like I was intentionally trying to hurt him. He would tell me that I had finally "made it" in life because he picked me to be his girl. How lucky!
Aug 2 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
cynthia (not verified)
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OMG, ya sounds like mine

OMG, ya sounds like mine whenever I would say I just called to hear your voice, or whatever it was long ago when I was really under the spell he would say, well I can understand that afterall it is ME I cant blame you for missing me and hearing my voice baby lets puke together shall we
Aug 2 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
Beachcolors
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Sooo similar

.........it's funny how they are so much alike. Mine would call me throughout the day and when I would say I missed him he would say "well i understand, i would miss me too"! He would also call me when he was close to my office and say "don't you want to see the baby"......talking about himself. My N and I didn't say the L word until we had been broken up for months. It was during one of his attempts to get me back into the mix. Of course we didn't last longer than 5 days and when he came back after that he asked me out to dinner because he had something very important to talk to me about. When I got there we sat at the bar, he ordered us some drinks and said "so, you think you love me", "well if you do then we can get back together".......as if he was the one who got to decided that. Like he was the one who left because I failed to act properly. It really makes me sick! This is my only experience with a narcissist and it will be the very last.....if i ever see any red flags again im running for the door.