What if I wasn't a target of his?
What if I wasn't a target of his?
Guys....there is something Im really wondering about.
I never had that ideal phase with my exN. The one where he comes on as Mr. Perfect and acts wonderful for a while. Mine NEVER acted like a great guy. He was a dick from day one. He was also very forthcomming with how bad of a guy he can really be. I have no doubt that he is a full blown N but I wonder about his "honesty". Does that mean that I wasn't a target?
I remember months ago, one of the women his ex victims support groups actually told me that the reason he was so honest with me is because he didn't care enough about being with me to try the lies to fake me out. She said "he didn't love you anywhere near what he loved us because he wasn't as bad to you"....."if he loved you he would have tourtured you". As much as I hate to dignify that comment, I do feel that maybe she was right. Maybe I was just something to kill time with and he didn't even want me as prey. I should be greatful if that is the case but It kinda hurts my feelings.
Anyway, I just wanted some thoughts on this...just trying to make some sense of things.
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Thanks so much Insectt
beachcolors
I agree with Barbara
beachcolors - that's incorrect