What if he's not a narc?
What if he's not a narc?
I'm going through a very bitter and angry phase at the moment for some reason, as I posted on another thread. Also having real trouble believing that all this bullcrap actually HAPPENED to me this year. It's just too horrible to be part of my normal life. It feels like there was a mix-up and I got given someone else's shitty life instead of the awesome one I was living up until Feb of this year. I even cried this morning for the first time in weeks.
I'm HATING the stupid ugly new woman for stealing my life and my future husband, and I'm HATING him for sweeping me off my feet, leading me to believe he was 100% serious about me, abandoning me after passive-aggressively keeping silent about the fact that he was "not happy in this relationship" for two months before dumping me, and then taking up with this dull, ugly, sly bitch.
Some replies to my other posts did of course point out that there is no fairy tale ending with these guys and that the new one will get kicked in the teeth sooner or later too. And I totally get that, if one is dealing with a bona fide narc.
But what if he's not a narc? What if I have it all wrong? What if he's a normal guy who just couldn't stand to be with me a minute longer? What if I'm "out for myself", and "caustic" and "squeezed" him like he said? What if he's truly in love with her and all he wants is to make her happy?
I just couldn't STAND it. I think I would lose my mind (what's left of it). This whole thing is just so traumatising and unfair. WHY has this happened to me? Or any of us?
HLS you are doing something
HLS you are doing something
I know what you mean...
Doubt
I have that thoughts too about mine
MsVulcan
Hook
Hookline
Michele
Bunghole! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
We have all been there
Chickon
Terrified?
(((((HLS))))))
Briseis
But the other thing is: I
OMG!!!!
Briseis
Exactly. I ski, and if I
Peace. J
Janet
Skiing w a Narc-
blueeyes
Robotic body language
Yeah, the robotic, stiff
oh yeah
Skiing with an N/P is
Peace. J
HLS
If you ask yourself this
Dear HLS
hooklineandsinker