what happens when Narc finds his ideal (other) woman... a fellow narc??
what happens when Narc finds his ideal (other) woman... a fellow narc??
Are they planning to steal my son? I put nothin short past is evil ass..
his continuos contemptuous attitude towards me and her stealy glaring eyes...
I went into the coffee shop where she works. My son knows her well of course. He was excited to see her. She is beautiful and thin but one thing I notice is that she has these empty glazed over eyes. only two peope l I know that have that look is my ex narc husband and her....his new woman...
They are talking about going to Brazil for a month and narc wants me to agree for him to take our son. I said I wouldnt stop him... over my dead body. I said it to qwell the issue for now. He has more mail here that says he owes the bank month worth of payments on credit that he is ignoring. It could be a pipe dream or a one way ticket!!!!!! Somethign is not right!!!
I have been foolishly engaging with him trying to be friends. I have received no end of vile texts and mail that tell me to blatantly fuck off, that his interest lie only with our son and that I am nothign to him and that I deserved him having an affair becasue I didnt do what I was meant to do.
he sent me a text saying 'i hope that when X (our son) is an adult I go many years not hearing form you'
Tell me do narcs know how hurtful there words are?
Do they know that it will trigger us?
Are they purly operating on selfish grounds and saying just what they feel, like a toddler would, or do they know the damage such a short string of words can do?
he said ' I do not want to hear from you, I do not want to be your friend at all, ever, just polite when we have to'
YES yes yes...
I know Its my fault for not being no contact... I shouldnt being lookign for any kind of a bridge. stupid on my part!!!!
I wanted to show my son that 'mummy and daddy' could still be friends, amicable and somehow still there for him as a co-parenting family. We share his care with a stiner school and he is very young still. We have to communicate al ot to arrange lifts for school and who will have him when. I thought we should show our child resilliance by being a team in spite of our break up.. he is clueless.. he has new woman, skinny tanned, perfect skinned, younger exotic woman...
he was so angered that his mum invited me and my son over this weekend. He wants his famiy to shun me too but his mother refuses.
and then I see it all.
the new woman is so high up on his pedastol...
wow, he really thinks he has hit the jackpot of woman..
when we split up and he had no one he sniffed around here like a a dog who couldnt get the smell out of his nose. he refused to get out of my house..
now he is demanding divorce, telling me he never loved me and trying to stamp me out.. To him I am just the 'loins' that brought his son into the world. the peice of meet he fucked and no longer has a use for.
I sure sound bitter.. guess I am then...
what drives these fuckers to such acts of callousness while remaining in such a state of total self preservation!?
Primitive reptillian brains? ... not loved as children? fucked up genetics? I dont know wtf it is but I am trying to operate under forgivness to make the burden easier on my own pysche and MAN its f*king challenging...
Ive cried my eyes out again because I cant believe how much of fall form grace I have experienced since the new woman came. in one way its good because who knows how much longer I woudl have been drawn into the macabre dance of wounded souls with him.. but in another way, I see how fickle he is and its still shocking!
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I'm so sorry. :=( For your
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Matching set!
Susan, my point exactly! The
Call of the Wild
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Tehehe:) Soooo true