What Do You Do when the New OW 'Hoovers' You and tries to Connect?

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#1 Jul 23 - 2PM
PinkPeony
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What Do You Do when the New OW 'Hoovers' You and tries to Connect?

I have been merrily NC for over 4 months now, and I am beginning to feel sparks of happiness and like my healthy positive self again...then I get this FB 'invite' to be friends on FB...from my EX's new OW that he just met a month ago on PlentyOfFish! I guess already they are an 'item' and 'soulmates' and SOOOOOOOOO 'in-love'...but the weirdest thing of all...bnesides the fact that she already admits to being 'addicted to him' and that he is her 'drug' after only 4 weeks...but she has made herself over to look like ME!!!

OMG! OMG! She actually dyed her hair my exact color and poses and dresses like me...even posted a new pic of herself...looking like a version of ME on her FB.

I want so much to warn her...BC she has children...BUT I know I can't and won't...at this stage she would never believe me...and would also tell him. He is a violent man and I don't want to stir up anything directed towards me by warning her.

Dont' worry...I know to block her FB and not accept her 'invite to be FB friends' (she used a fake profile for this)...possibly so HE would not know...or I wouldn't. But anyway...just wondering...before I block her...can I at least send her a message that might direct her to locate his history of violent behavior and point her in the right direction...

Or NO...just block her and say a prayer for her???

Jul 24 - 11AM
brinamarie
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I had similar experiences!!!

Jul 24 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
owenjohnston
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this is so weird. when my

Jul 24 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
GracefullyFree
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Copying Not a Compliment

Jul 24 - 10AM
PinkPeony
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It was really HER

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Jul 24 - 9AM
Used
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The narcissists

Jul 24 - 8AM
Bruisednotbroken
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Yeah, I agree she definitely

Jul 23 - 10PM
Janie53
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The Narcissist Girlfriend

Jul 23 - 2PM
fallingfoward
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NC....

Jul 23 - 2PM
Peeks
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NOOOOOOOO......

Jul 23 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
Deidre99
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lol @ bonkers comment.yes,

Jul 23 - 2PM
Deidre99
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This woman needs a lot more

Jul 23 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
PinkPeony
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You are Right

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