What do I do girls?

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#1 Jul 31 - 11AM
Brit
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What do I do girls?

During the course of my relationship with N my mother passed away suddenly in her sleep from heart failure, and for a whole solid two weeks N let up his torture treatment on me.

Now we talk about karma and I have found it bittersweet. N's mother, who is a very kind caring 81 year old has a brain tumor, given two/three months to live. I would often think about what might affect the N, he has sailed through life without any loss, hardship or trauma, but I think this will impact on him although I'm not sure how.

What do I do about this? It is N's Dad that is the narc. I don't feel like supporting N as I have worked hard to distance myself from him and come to terms with it all. He is not my problem anymore, but his poor old mother is dying and I would like to help her. What shall I do? She has always been very kind and understanding to me, she knows what her son is and has had to endure, not only him but N husband too.

Brit x

Jul 31 - 5PM
Brit
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Thank you

Jul 31 - 12PM
lessonlearned
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as everyone else said

Jul 31 - 11AM
Layla
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Goody goody, he was "nice" for two weeks.

Jul 31 - 12PM (Reply to #7)
Deidre99
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Layla

Jul 31 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Layla
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aaaaaaaaawwww, I think I love you too.........

Jul 31 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
Deidre99
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Yes, hate to speak of someone

Jul 31 - 11AM
Deidre99
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I agree with Hunter. Pray for

Jul 31 - 11AM
Used
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brit

Jul 31 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
Pearl430
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you could

Jul 31 - 11AM
Hunter
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That is very sad .. Every day