What am I doing to attract these freaks of nature!?!?

So since I joined this forum last week I have been soaking up everything I can on narcissism. I went out and bought Sams book, stayed up 24 hrs straight watching him & Sheridan's videos (almost didn't go to work), and I've been obsessed with this website. I have come to the frightening realization that after my divorce in 2005 from my husband of ten years almost every man I have dated is a complete narc! Now that I've learned the lingo and the signs I can see the outright blatant narcissism in every single one of these guys! Please help me what in the hell am I doing to attract these freaks of nature!?!?