we're all just stand ins.......

My exN had a very limited vocabulary-mostly w/ f#*king before and after the word. And my favorite "I'm not doing anything wrong"

Yeah crazy isn't it to think that a whole mind can be plagiarized! Mine is a writer and has won numerous literary awards - but I thought recently - he has this HUGE library in his home - he spends ALL his free time reading - and I just bet his poems are basically plagiarized -if not word for word - close. All his brilliant ideas he makes so much money on and people pay him for at speaking engagements -I think he's heard them/read them elsewhere and just embellishes them and calls them his own. It truly is amazing. It's like the human part is all plagiarized in them. The primitive snake predator part is the only real part. Their minds are like hard drives on computers - nothing original actually coming from them only stolen stuff stored and brought out to impress or intimidate. And rage the only power source.

alright - with a MONSTER TESTICLE!

Mine too. Holds grudges forever, even if it was something not based on fact, but what he thought. This goes for everyone in his life. And he never forgives them. Never forgave his parents, never forgave his x wife. Never forgave me for not being the puppet he wanted me to be over 9 months ago. (couldn't deal with the fact that I had my own brain and could make my own decisions that were different than his, but still good decisions) But yes, if he did something bad against me like tell me I had no "spinal column" and I said I don't like when he talks to me harshly and disrespectable, his response would be "I only said that once". yes, its true, he only said that word once, but used hundreds of other words once too. and yes, too, everyone always has an ulterior motive, even if their motives are perfectly honest. Everyone is out to screw him and has evil intents. I guess that's where the projection is....as he views everyone as evil at first, and I view everyone as trustworthy at first.

Mine did that too, confused me with other women, one time he didnt recognize my voice when I called and said, who is this Diane? (thats his GF) ya nice try and he also got my body parts confused said he never saw me completely shaved in the private area, I thought where were you this last 5 times because I was bald. Eventually you bust them if you are with them long enough, no wonder they have CONSTANT problems in their relationships they ALL slip and their lies are inconsistent, they dont ever think we remember, but its my memory I think that saved me and of course they deny what we remember telling us we dont listen or we are confused, I thought no you are just a bad liar today

Mine had the weird sense of time thing going. He would go on about things that happened 10 years ago, thinking it had been " a couple of years ago." They are so immersed in their fantasy world, they really do lose contact with reality. They confuse people, situations and time frames frequently. Then they fly into a rage if you point out their errors. Their brains are damaged in some way-even the ones who aren't substance addicted.