Welp--I sent the goodbye letter!!!
Welp--I sent the goodbye letter!!!
Just super quick update...I'll be back later. I wrote a thread last night, about sending a letter...should I or shouldn't I? And you all said not to. I totally agree with your sentiments...BUT...I wrote it and sent it via email just now. What dawned on me everyone is this. It's not about his reaction, or his non reaction. It's about my declaring to him...whether he cares or not...I AM CLOSING THE DOOR. GOODBYE. IF YOU WISH TO CONTINUE THIS, I WILL NOT BE RESPONDING ANYMORE.
I said nice things, too. He was helpful to me in different areas of my life when I needed it. But, he had a very dark side...he was a narc, but I wonder if everyone saw that side....or do these people only reveal that side to those they think they can get away with it on? I think the latter.
I no longer want to be checking my emails 24/7. I may actually dismantle that email. I no longer want to be checking my phone...IT'S DONE. I'M FREEEEE!!!
I really feel free. I did this for me. To close the door once and for all...on someone who treated me like I was beneath him. I did wish him well...and that I'd pray for him. I pray truly? That he gets some help. Maybe he will fall madly in love with another woman someday, and she will leave him...and he will finally see the pain he causes. We should pray for our narcs. They need help, and let's pray they stop hurting others.
God bless...and I'll let you know later if he replies. haha
Hopefully he doesn't. I really would prefer that over getting some silly email that tries to undermine me.
~D
Im glad for you, Diedre
Thank you very much for