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#1 Feb 15 - 7PM
rache
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Well,went to doctor with flu

I had the flu shot(not the swine flu on e)and guess what=FLU,well,i told him it had been 18 straight days of bleeding and he said that my uterus was inlarged in july when the other doc wanted to do ultrasound,but,i didnt go in.He told me to not wait and to go to ob/gyn asap,so,now i am scared and i am dreading a possible hysterectomy and big ass scar,ugh......not to mention i hope if it is something bad that it isnt spread.WHY does women have to go through this????????My head is busting,ears hurt,nose stopped up then gets runny.Nauseated/queasy etc.I feel horrid....just had to vent a little.

Feb 15 - 7PM
quietude (not verified)
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rache

Awww, I'm so sorry you're feeling so badly! Please try to focus on just taking care of yourself, enlist the help of a friend or family to help you. Well, did the doc say what it might be?? Just wait until you go to the gyno who will give you real answers rather than trying to guess. Before my gallbladder surgery, my PCP told me she felt a big 'mass' on my liver ~ she even used the word 'cancer'...ugh. Umm, THAT was my very large gallbladder. I promised myself I wouldn't 'do' panic mode until I got my CT scan results. And it was just my GB. Anyhow...I wish I could bring you some nice chicken soup...please stay warm, drink some nice hot tea, keep that fever down, and take very good care!! (hugs)
Feb 15 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
rache
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quietude

thank you so much((tears))....I do feel so bad,and,so scared.I am a big baby when it comes to sickness and pain.wish i could have a big bowl of that chicken soup-it sounds so good.((hugs to you too))... rache
Feb 15 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
cynthia (not verified)
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Get rest

I hate having the flu, its awful. Drink lots of gingerale if you can. Havent been sick for a long time knock on wood but when I do, I get really nasty colds and sinus crud, just knocks me off my feet, we are old now Rache and more fragile so we have to get those flu shots. I think being with my sociopath aged me 10 years ha ha
Feb 15 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
rache
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cynthia

you are right.I hated to admit it but age has taken its toll.A horrible childhood(even though i loved my grandmother/grandfather)they enabled my mom and dad to abuse us.My mom i know was a narcissist,dad most likely a socio/psychopath.My uncle a drunk.Then,add a first husband at 15 3/4th years of age(me)-he 21 who i believe is a narcissist,cheater and liar,then,after that ended after 18 years,a second who was dependant/low motivated and wouldnt apply himself,then,he cheated after 20 years.Then,in walks the worst-the sociopath/narc.Yes,i think i am frazzled just about out,lol.and eight kids,6 stillbirths,4 miscarriages! Yep,all true story.Lord help me! I think when this gets all taken care of, us gals should plan a BIG girls vacation together.SPA retreat!((smiles))
Feb 15 - 10PM (Reply to #5)
cynthia (not verified)
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.SPA retreat!((smiles))

We deserve something dont we? We should vacation on some island where all the men wait on us like queens. Its too hard being a woman, I too had a miscarriage and had abusive partners, the narc almost totally destroyed me, my new philosophy, if it has a penis stay away from it. ha ha
Feb 16 - 12AM (Reply to #6)
Barbara (not verified)
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go get checked!

one woman I knew who was sleeping around on her husband died only 5 weeks after being diagnosed with cancer. She had contracted HPV and never bothered to go to the doctor. Less than a year after she married a (finally) decent guy - she dropped dead. this past May I had major surgery to remove an endometrial mass. I was in the hospital for a week last January in excruciating pain. I thought my PCOS and all my infertility treatments had finally caught up with me. Everyone was scared I had cancer. Because I also have M.S. my immune system stinks. I have yet another large scar but I am completely fine. They found ZERO signs of cancer. Thank GOD I didn't sleep with Psycho-Boy this second time around. Goodness KNOWS what him and all those hookers played hot potato with. ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Feb 16 - 3AM (Reply to #7)
rache
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yes

I caught HPV from last N the 66 year old who i married.