We were in LOVE
We were in LOVE
Hi all
I just wanted to post this about why it is all so hard because this is one thing that needs to be acknowledged by everyone.
I notice that a lot of people are struggling with how we got duped for so long but in truth we ALL fell in love with the image in the beginning. Deep , mad, forgiving, giving LOVE. We simply did not know that so many others around us simply do not have the capacity for it. Please don't any of you consider you were stupid in any way, shape or form. You are all just loving human beings, and that is the only reason why they wanted you. How many of us waited for so long for that guy in the beginning to come back and believed that we had done something wrong for him to disappear.
That was the trick! They know that once they get us hooked it is so terribly hard to tear ourselves away from them no matter how badly they treat us.
My first encounter often said
"Treat em mean, keep em keen" then giggle while I was in earshot.
My last one told me that he just had to get me to fall in love with him and I would belong to him forever. He said that was all he had to do. (got news for him) Anyway the key word here is belong. Once you are their property, that's all you are.
But to reiterate, our biggest crime was falling in love, not being dumb or thinking we should have known. Knowing what we do now, and working with that is the way forward.
Best wishes to everybody here as you move forward.
XO
Waiting for him to come back
Helldweller
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
helldweller
Nevergoback
Nancy M
Jaw on the floor.
Nevergoback
helldweller and NancyM
It's good to hear from you Hitandrun...
Thanks Introspection
I really feel for u
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
betty2020
OMG girl your moving along a
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Thanks betty2020!
What an idea....Maybe in 5
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
I totally understand, believe me...
I will be okay, Introspection
OMG
Amen sweetheart...
Crime
Nevergoback
true
Amen to all the posts above.
Peace. J