very very leary

ok my radar is on high alert. im doing all i can to stay away from ex and Nmom. today I get a message that he hoped we could get along because it was important to son. i asked him if it bothered him that his dad couldnt come around us but i wasnt stopping him from going to see his dad or having a relationship. son said he didnt care. the more I push him away the more he clings.

Im very very leary. This is one time I just wish he would come out with it and say what he wants so I can say no.

He had come to the emergency room on monday where my mother was. She was having trouble with her blood pressure so I didnt confront him there. He was being oh so nice. He was telling son to mind me and playing the parent part. He was asking me personal questions. Things that a normal divorced person doesnt do. I waited til after to confront him. I didnt want to upset my mother. I told him there was no need to check on my family. I also reminded him of the papers to sign over the house to me. He hasnt done that yet. lawyer has pushed to get that for me. after that he went really quiet for a few days. then I got the message today.

The weird part, Im not trying to figure him out and what he is doing. I just want to know what he wants from me. I do feel like he does want something from me, he and mom are being way to nice and going out of their way, even with me trying to change up my routine and avoiding them.