I woke up this morning after actually dreaming of the narc ( eeeeeuuuuuugh), sat up in bed, my son brought me a cup of tea ( bless him) and I noticed a folded piece of A4 paper on my bedside table . I don't know when it got put there but last week I had a mad cleaning frenzy whilst in an 'I need to stop running his cruel behaviour round in my head ' moments, and I know it wasn't there then . My kids don't go in my room as its up on the third floor and they just don't go up there, so I know it's not them. Well anyway, I open it up and it's the lyrics from a song by Robbie Williams , ' only you know me' . Just the lyrics printed from a lyrics website!!! Date printed.... 05/01/12...which is the last time narc text me and I didn't respond. In that text, he put things like ' I know you better than you know yourself, blah blah narc bullshit and I never responded.
Yesterday I get a Facebook message from my friends ex boyfriend asking how my love life is, ( this guy hasn't written to me since March 2010 when he designed the wedding invites for mine and lunatic's wedding that May. He is still friends with narc !!!!!! I didn't respond to the message and got rid of him.
So has the narc been in my house? He is blocked every way possible . We are divorced now and I've been NC for ages. He gave me keys back through my friend back in November but who knows, he probably had one cut. He has moved in with ow but a 'so called friend' told me the other day that he told her fella that its just cos he is skint and doesn't love her, what a surprise . I don't care.
This past weekend I went away for the weekend and had a great time so wasn't in the house and checked myself in to a pub on Facebook about an hour or so away from home so I reckon he knows somehow that I was away!!!!
Locks are being changed tomorrow so that'll make me feel better .
Am I going crazy and paranoid ?? It's nearly a year since he left and in just getting back to normal .
Big hugs to all