very nervous feeling
very nervous feeling
Son started boxing. I did what I was required per the papers and emailed him the information. Now ex is wanting to come to all his practices. Ex now lives with new wife 45 minutes away. Not far enough in my book. Son doesnt want him there. He told him last night he (ex) needed to spend time with his wife. Ex replies you come first dont you get it. Son is telling me all this and I am shaking my head. Son tells him what about your wife, shouldnt she come first. This is all via text. He tells son no one comes before you.
I just told son be very careful around new wife. I said if she finds out he feels that way she could become resentful towards you. I said and it would be ugly if she got ugly with you. He said ok and promised to let me know if anything happens.
I am communicating with ex via email. After the arguments I received about doing that, he is replying. I sent one about doing volunteer work for son's youth group. Ex wants to volunteer. Thankfully its on a day opposite me. So now when he makes excuses about anything, my reply is I am doing what I am required and notifying you per the papers. It is your choice whether you participate for son. The niceness is killing me.
To me this is alot quieter than he has been in the past. It is little trival things. BUT by him doing this stuff it bugs me.
So I cant figure out if this is to look good for the laywers and judge? If this is about control? If this is a self hoover because he isnt getting the attention from new wife that he needs?
nagging me
justwantpeace
thanks barbara
justwantpeace