very bad day........days.....

----- thanks everyone, for the kind words.......although he has said to me face to face....'so what?..no law against killing an old dog, bitch'...with a smirk on his face.but has never actually admitted in writing to having murdered BEN...instead he drops little hints...like he always thinks of him on Valentines Day (the day he murdered him)...i hate his guts....i'm actually hating him more with every day he gets away with what he's done.... My blog

Narnarc, your post just tugged at my heart...for you and for me. I can so relate to your heartbreak. My ex narc (maybe a sociopath) made several threats to hurt my beloved dog, one time he was in such a rage he tossed the dog across the room and he hit the wall, and the final straw was him telling me I was ill for caring about a dog and he wanted my dog to die. In that moment, I saw the future and I got out because I knew it would have been the demise of my pup. I'm a huge animal lover so I feel your pain so intensly and personally. I hope that helps you in some way to know that there's another out there who has experienced the fear for your animal and the sadistic abuse the narcissist can inflict upon a pet (and you). Big hugs.

This is just so heartbreaking that I wanted to add a note to you 'narcnarcwhosthere'. First to send you a hug, and then to suggest you contact any Animal's Rights Group in your area, or state...or even in the USA. Send them Pics of Ben and tell your story. Ask what recourse you may have, as I am sure what this 'Sh*t for a being'EXpsychopath of yours committed a legal violation under 'animal cruelty'...if no one will help you for your sake...go after him for Ben's! File a police report (you have to go to the station) Take a pic of Ben with you for their files (a copy will do), and a veteranarian report if you have one too....INSIST this man is dangerous...as it is a well known fact that a person who is cruel to animals (a classic sign of sociopathy or psychopathology), often escalates to harm/murder humans and is dangerous. File assault charges on him. You may do this even if the assault occured months ago...Get past how they treat you (the flaming idiots!)...and stand your ground and insist on filing reports. You need documentation which often helps support you, even when you have no 'evidence'...the reports start piling up and pointing towards HIM...and eventually they will pay attention. If not and the BOZOs do nothing, or worse yet, continue to treat you badly...tell them you are going to speak to your local newspaper about how the police did nothing when this psychopath killed your dog and tried to kill you...(create a 'friend' who is a reporter...refuse to give 'their' name)...this often will make the police departments shift gear and pay more attention...mention how you have paid your taxes and THEIR salaries for years...and find the way they are doing their job is despicable! THEN! Get the name of your local City Councilperson, and send a letter and pic of Ben to him/her, ask for an appointment to talk...and then go to your State Representative for help too. That is what they are there for...for the citizens...they don't get to descriminate who they help by gender, age, economic/employment situation or anything else! And remind them of this. Tell what happened for Ben's sake. Our pets are like our children to us...to most people...and part of the family...this sick freak of a nonehumanbeing EXpsychopath killed a family member...someone you loved. Don't give up. It may seem like no one hears you ar cares when you keep being given the 'brick wall' treatment...but somewhere/somehow/someday...they will care...and I am sure all who are here and know what happened and believe in you...already DO know and care very much. xoxo

yeah...the whole DV thing has been a horrible experience....i have started audio taping all my conversations with DV organizations....and am in contact with someone who is trying to find funding to produce a documentary about the run around domestic violence victims get....if what the psychonarc did to me wasn't bad enough...DV organizations and the police have helped him to further destroy my life.....i hope to convert some of the tapes to mp3s and post them on my blog soon.......it's shocking........ My blog

narcnarc. Obviously there are no words that can even address the issue. I don't know what I would do/feel if that were a part of my experience. Again I am so sorry you have to deal with that kind of pain. Such a psychopath. I know you have thought of it- but given that the email you have has within it's content boasting about his awful deed, can that not be used against him criminally? Please take care.