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#1 Feb 26 - 9PM
newlifeway
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Valentines Credit Card Bill

Seething FIRE HOT ANGER!!!

SO ANGRY

his credit card bill , yes I opened.

Reveals he bought flowers, jewelry, and lingerie from a certain popular shop. Also, reveals he bought them Ipads. Aw isn't that just so sweet. He's also buying new things for their new apartment!

This, combined with reading all the negative things he said. Things that the lawyer has revealed, such as his emptying the safety deposit box of his grandparents jewelry....have upset me.

I have been working NC and I did have a few good days , but he simply DOES NOT CARE he has left and has not looked back , except for where the kids are concerned!

I should be thankful he at least cares for his own children!

But in my worst he is living it up, lavishing his OG with gifts to ease her pain of loss of their baby.

I am wreching in the yard, throwing up sick to my stomach, a new knot of pain and anxiety and tension lives there and sometimes I just throw up! he literally as has made me ILL

:(

oh, and a new WATCH a $350 white damn ceramic watch for his new OG!!!

I can't stand him I can't stand him!!!!
I hate him!! please please I just can't take the way he can do this , be this way! live like this!!

Feb 27 - 8AM
Redhead
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Take that bill to your

Take that bill to your attorney. If your name is on that bill, get it off.
Feb 27 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
Redhead
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In Texas, your attorney can

In Texas, your attorney can declare in the decree that once he moves out & papers are filed any debt he accrues will be deemed his. What a pig, honey I'm so sorry
Feb 27 - 7AM
Hunter
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Take that to the

Take that to the attorney.. Dont get upset.. You know what I think.. " This is War" .. This now needs to be about protecting your children and your assets .. Youve been married to this creature for many years and you deserve your fair share..dont settle for one penny less.. Becarful that he doesn't go on a spending spree.. And bankrupt your next egg.. This guy is a piece of Shit with a cherry on top .. He sould be in jail .. An hopefully this girls parents smarten up and press charges. Hunter
Feb 27 - 12AM
Im_always_fine
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OHHHHHH! I'd be buy'n myself

OHHHHHH! I'd be buy'n myself something FINE online!!! With HIS card. If your conscience won't let you? Don't the kids need new wardrobes?? Bikes?? Laptops? (for homework) Just say'n. Think ahead...winter shoes and coats? I WOULD!
Feb 27 - 12AM
nomoredenial
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these gifts are not for her at all

they are for him, to look a certain way. To appear to be something because really he is nothing. Who does that to a family....He is so caught up in how this makes him look and feel. She is not important, she will be replaced.
Feb 26 - 11PM
Sparrow
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As tempting as it is, you

As tempting as it is, you can't read the purchases on his credit card bill. Unless you are required to by your divorce attorney, not sure. Of course he is making these large purchases. He needs to be seen by the OG as a super hero. Continue with your NC, you will get there eventually. It takes time to accept all of this. And a long time to get past all of it. There will be a day when you do however. Keep up the good work!
Feb 26 - 10PM
Run4it
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I don't even know what to

I don't even know what to say. I wish you had not seen that mess. What a sorry piece of work he is! I would be just as angry.... It is all about him and will continue to be that way. Whatever he has to do to get what he wants. The young OG is easily bought. He's an idiot. I'm not much help here because I'm mad too. But just for some perspective.... After I had a miscarriage, if my husband had bought me lingerie, I would have been pissed off. Just goes to show how he sees this...creep.
Feb 27 - 4AM (Reply to #2)
Snowflake
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NC

Ok lets take the emotion out and do some doing.. Number one..get the credit card statement re adressed to him..I assume its only his and you have no liability? If you do get your name off the card. Write to CC company with his new address tell them he no longer lives there. Looking is causing you pain.. Number two..they are JUST GIFTS..gifts mean nothing, I could buy her a watch, does it mean I love her? See past the gifts, honestly honey I know when you are in it its so damn hard but I think I speak for EVERYONE on here when I say he wins WANKER OF THE YEAR and its only Feb. LET HER HAVE HIM, HE IS NO PRIZE!!!!! He can never be what you want him to be, I know you have to have some contact but as limited as possible..which means open the door let the kids out, let them back in..if at all possible...get rid of everything postal that comes for him. Get that credit card readdressed..isnt this the second time you have opened it now? I dont want to be harsh with you, but you need to get DOING, I hate reading your pain, I want to bury him in concrete..I want YOU to act on what I have said, PLEASE HONEY x x x