An update on my new life

An update fo you oldtimers who helped me so much.
I went through hell literally, not figuratively.
Without family, support, finance or anything in a foreign country with a bent legal system.
Somehow with grinding hard work at my temp job and making jewelry and teaching courses, i managed to go home for Christmas. I got to see my daughter graduate from university in physcology. And be accepted to do her masters at another uni. I got to help my son settle in to his new position as chef after graduating chef school in november. I got to spend quality time with my kids again and to try to heal the loss they felt the 10 years i was with him.
Now im back here to sort out some money again and the house i part own. So i can return and look forward to getting older with my love ones.

In the interim the very slow police served him with the violence order i reported to them 1 year ago. He was home on a brief visit from USA to get his visa renewed and they served him with it.
So hes fuming, and we will have an ugly court case,but im ready. I cant afford a lawyer but ill ask for any help i can get, as he accuses me of lying about the abuse.
I let him have access to the house while i was away to get his stuff ( left key with neighbour) so he cant say i didnt allow him.
He is so useless he couldnt find anything if his.
Actually as i know if you gave him a flashlight in his two hands he cldnt find his own arsehole!
Im so proud i have never given in to his hoivering once. I never let him touch me from the moment i discovered a year ago he was a monster.
My health is back! while with him he made me sick for the first time in my life.

Anyway he has tried everything, including sueing me for defamation. Etc etc.
I know i will get through all this sooner or later and start life again .
Im so much happier. And after the help ive got on this forum i hace been abke to help and empathise with so many other women who are goibg through this hell.

What doesnt kill you makes you stronger!! Thanks girls and i look forward to your support as i rebuild.

Xxxxx
Thanks to Goldie and Lisa and so many others here i came through.

I will become a resource for women trapped in foreign countrues with Narcs.