Update - My Narc really is crazy!

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#1 Jul 8 - 11PM
sara-smile
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Update - My Narc really is crazy!

I posted earlier this week asking for help because the Narc caught me in the parking lot wanting to "talk". I went nuts on him and threatened his job and the OW and his life! LOL! I lost my mind that day. I had been holding a lot of stuff in for so long so I honestly went psycho on him. The funny part is I scared him so bad that he didn't even show up for work the next day!! Heeee!!! :)

The CRAZY part is after me going psycho, threatening his job, the OW and his life he sent me multiple text messages yesterday!! He was asking if he could see me before I left for vacation because he missed me and we needed to talk and TAKE THINGS SLOW to fix our problems so we could GET MARRIED and be the happy couple we always said we would be. Can you say "scrambled eggs"? LOL Instead of throwing me into another fit of rage that made me laugh hysterically! What in the hell is he thinking?? I know that Narcs are crazy and mine is a special kind of crazy but what the hell was he thinking?? Do you think he thought I'd say SURE HONEY!! I'll be right there?? INSANE!! He is insane! He said I scare him when I get crazy like I did on Tuesday but obviously I don't scare him enough to make him leave me alone!

I'm going on vacation tomorrow with my family for 7 wonderful Narc free days! I don't have to see him for 10 days!! I'm so excited. He will text or call but that is easy to ignore. Not having to see him for 10 days is a gift from God.

Sara

Jul 9 - 12PM
Deidre40
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They are crazy. But, there is

They are crazy. But, there is a method to his madness. He wants to lure you in. Like a spider. Then coil his web around you, and attack, when your defenses are down. Seriously. My ex would say lots of nice things...then, I'd text (taking the bait) not to get back with him...but just thinking to myself, oh, maybe we CAN be friends now. But, nope. He would use that oppty to smash me down...insult me...tell me never to call him again. So...beware when narcs are being nice and kind. They are luring people into their lion's dens...they are very scary people, in my opinion.
Jul 9 - 6AM
Hunter
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Haha! Now that's funny, poor

Haha! Now that's funny, poor OW! Hunter
Jul 9 - 2AM
Journey
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Wow Sara, that is insane!!

Wow Sara, that is insane!! "... so you can get married" LOL!! What a lame hover attempt so you won't get him fired or tell on him to OW! I'm so glad you are laughing again and are getting away for a well deserved narc-free break!! Enjoy :)

Journey on...