Upcoming doctor visit with EXNH and our son - Need advice
Upcoming doctor visit with EXNH and our son - Need advice
EXNH-psycho never did a THING regarding the kids, especially about Doctor visits.
Just before the custody settlement he ramped up this big woop about their EYES. Drama Drama - accusing me of not taking them to their appointment (LIE) not having their eyes screened (LIE) not getting their flu shot (LIE) and on and on. Even though it's entirely documented in their medical record that I DID all this. AND I took pictures! Geez.
So, drama drama. More drama.
He accuses me more of more non-sense, I ignore. More scenes, more ranting emails from him. I'm NC as much as humanly possible. YAY. Life is much better.
SO, this week he has drummed up more drama, probably based on LIES regarding our son and a medical appointment. I found out when it is, and I will attend.
HELP ME MANAGE IT.
HOW TO BE.
EXNH-psycho is also a doctor.
So, I show up to the appointment, right?
And I won't look him in the eye, right?
And I'll endure it, and will engage as little as possible.
And he will put on the whole great father, concerned parent routine, and be creepy, and the doctor will see through it, right?
And if he accuses me of b.s. - what do I do? Maintain eye contact with the doctor, and refute it pleasantly and calmly? Certainly these docs see this b.s. all the time.
I want to get through the thing unscathed.
I could NOT show up, but that opens the door to him saying manipulative things to the doc, which he has done in the past.
I want to protect my children from him, and I want to protect my ability to parent them.
He does have me scared, because he has done everything he has ever threatened to do to me, and has the means to continue punishing me with the legal system. And he really gets off on tormenting me. So, I guess, I should just appear NON-tormented?
Those of you with experience please coach me!
Thank you for your comments.
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