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#1 Jan 11 - 1PM
Movingforwardnow
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un f-ing believable

So i ahve him blocked on FB and I just finally reactivated my FB yesterday thinking it'd be ok...but NOPE! he is blocked but friend of a friend of a friend you know how it goes.....trying to pump me for info which I know is coming from him. he is trying to be all sneaky. he had deactivated his FB too and wouldn't you know he must have heard I was back on and he is now back on today. I deactivated mine again because I know what's going on....more character assassinantion! UGH! Wish I didn't reactivate yesterday...won't be doing that again anytime soon....F#$K why'd i do that...that is almost as bad as contact. Now I am all shaking and pissed again....

Jan 11 - 6PM
Redhead
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Mcastle

I'm so sorry:(
Jan 11 - 2PM
Healingslowly_b...
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Big hug

I closed my facebook account at the weekend due to this and also didn't like his name popping up, or photos of him through other people's pages. I felt strange about it at first because it was a real lifeline for me but lucky I joined this forum the following day and now feel really good about not being in anyway able to see him or for him to see me. Keep strong lovely lady.... you can do this xxxx
Jan 11 - 1PM
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He is clearly a predator.

He is clearly a predator. Stay off facebook for now. Don't be too hard on yourself, you didn't know, now you do. Stay strong!
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
Movingforwardnow
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Sparrow

Thanks...and yes now I know. Done with FB! i was doing good and now I am bawling all over again. My fault...should have known better and now I jsut got to move past it. UGH!
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #12)
Sparrow
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Bawling is good.......get it

Bawling is good.......get it out of your system. Now you know and will move forward. Sometimes, things that seem innocent, can turn out to be the biggest of triggers. Just remember, you are learning, and there is sooooo much to learn. You are doing great and will continue to! I am proud of you for shutting it down and acknowledging the consequences of the whole experience! Keep up the good work! Your doing great!
Jan 11 - 1PM
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Unbelievable ?? No not

Unbelievable ?? No not really.. They can't even leave us in peace.. They need to keep it up.. Don't take the bait.. It ends when you end it.. That includes mutual friends .. Hunter
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
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Hunter

Got it! Mutual friends aren't really a problem anymore as he has totally lied about me and made me out to be the crazy one...which is believable to them as I did go crazy with the last D&D. I was the one blowing up his phone which he had turned off....anywyaas It's more of a friend of a firend 8 times removed....or something like that. point is I will not reactivate FB anytime soon...Can't put myself through that shit and childish garbage.
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Hunter
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I always say ..when you've

I always say ..when you've had enough is when it stops. Hunter
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
Movingforwardnow
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Hunter

I ahve had enough. Do you think i am looking for this crap? Or bringing it on myself? I don't want to be doing that...i want to be NC in my head as well.......
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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You've been headfucked.. Your

You've been headfucked.. Your just begining to process it.. Personally I think your moving in a positive direction.. I see you growing every day.. I still think about the Dog Whisperers crap.. It's just different now.. Are you seeing a Thearpist? I think you said yes.. This is not an easy or quick recovery process..but if you do the work you will see the payoff.. Hunter
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
Movingforwardnow
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Yes I see a therapist

twice a week. I know it will just take time. Moving on now. DELETE, DELETE, DELETE Thanks!
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
Movingforwardnow
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Hunter

Taht was a real question not a sarcastic one....it may ahve sounded sarcastic depending on how its read. I really want to know ... am I bringing it on myself or looking for crap just to keep in the game so to speak????
Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
Run4it
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Mcastle,

I see what you are asking and question myself as well.
Jan 11 - 2PM (Reply to #7)
Movingforwardnow
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Run4it,

I figured I wasn't the only one who thought that before....It's all just a clusterf#$k as far as I am concerned. Who in the hell ends a relationship with a D&D? Sick f#$ks.... that's who! As Hunter says, DELETE, DELETE, DELETE...just gotta quit questioning myself and move the f on already. Goodbye and good riddance!