U N B E L I E V A B L E...

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#1 Jul 16 - 6AM
FreeMe
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U N B E L I E V A B L E...

Oh Forum friends... The beat goes on...
I am currently in South East Asia in business. WiFi and connectivity is hit or miss. I happened to be in an area where I could pick up voicemail. My children often leave me "I love you mamma" messages & I was hoping to hear their sweet voices. After listening to a string of personal & work related VM's, I received the following...
" True to your word FreeMe, you're an ALL or NOTHING woman. Sad that you are so rigid. You said you were creating HEALTHY boundaries? (Insert thee most patronizing, condescending laugh). That's great FreeMe, healthy boundaries! (Laughed again) I'm gonna put the biggest smiley face stamp on what you call HEALTHY BOUNDARIES... (another creepy snorting laugh) Ahhh, I gotta borrow that one FreeMe.... That's just great. If I had treated you like you have me (supposedly icing him) you would have nothing to do with me... (Isn't that what I'm doing? Having nothing to do with him?)
You're good, really good FreeMe, you've ICED me! Lemme know when you decide to thaw...." (Click... End of message)

The message was so creepy. He sounded like Anthony Hopkins in Silence of the Lambs. The laugh was haunting. I'm glad I listened to it. When I travel, I get a little homesick and lonely. I feel vulnerable and I soften. THIS was another sign, another eye-opener, a warning from my guides to stay the course.
As dear ds says, hoovers are NOT a compliment. Well, this one sure couldn't be misconstrued as one...
That laugh... Sooooooo creepy- Sooooo condescending, sooooo "NOT NORMAL..."

The Universe keeps giving us signs, we just have to see them...

xoxo
FreeMe

Jul 16 - 8PM
Emotionalroller...
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I think if we all looked a

Jul 16 - 12PM
Juliette
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Free, I think your reporting all these hoovers can be triggering

Jul 16 - 11AM
Hunter
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BlahBlahBlah,Change your

Jul 16 - 4PM (Reply to #16)
Learningthehardway
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Hunter.....

Jul 16 - 11AM
talktothehand
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FreeMe

Jul 16 - 9AM
ALH
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Signs

Jul 16 - 6AM
Janie53
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Free Me

Jul 16 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
Done sourcing
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Exactly Janie, why isn't he

Jul 16 - 6AM (Reply to #2)
FreeMe
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Hi dear Janie

Jul 16 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
Used
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freeme

Jul 16 - 7PM (Reply to #9)
ZanShin
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Change your number!

Jul 16 - 7PM (Reply to #10)
Emotionalroller...
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Laughing so hard

Jul 16 - 8PM (Reply to #11)
ZanShin
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I pretty much did. :)

Jul 16 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
Janie53
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FreeMe

Jul 16 - 7AM (Reply to #4)
FreeMe
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Agree Janie-

Jul 16 - 9PM (Reply to #7)
fefe65
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Freeme The hoovers want last

Jul 16 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
Done sourcing
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Stop relying on him being

Jul 16 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
Lacey
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I have to agree with the others