In trying so hard to understand their lack of empathy....
In trying so hard to understand their lack of empathy....
and how they dont CARE that they have a lack of empathy, I've tried to think of things in my life that I have done that I know are "wrong" or "bad" but that I do not feel badly about.
For example, I have a tendency to sneak an olive off the olive tray at loblaws and eat it. I know its stealing but for various reasons I justify it and do not feel badly about it, at all. I know that I COULD feel badly, but I dont, I find it amusing. (dont judge me :)) And I do not feel guilty about not feeling badly. Why would I be concerned that I dont feel ashamed for doing something that I dont think is a big deal?
I think with a narc you take this but apply it to much larger things, things that ALL normal people would feel guilty about. Such as hurting other people, lying, betraying, cheating, using, manipulating. They dont feel badly about these things, they always find ways to minimize/justfy them and they are not concerned about their lack of empathy.
This has helped me, although its still reeeeally hard for me to believe that some people never feel guilt over causing another human being pain. Anyways, maybe this will help someone else too.
Allow me to extend an olive branch,
"will snatch a grape in your
grape snatcher
PA
That was funny Janie
It is hard to understand
lack of empathy
It does help, thanks.
Its something that
Ya, I know I'll never fully
I had so many clues
Ns1 I could sign my name to
"Much love to all my
You said you could have signed your name
Well said loser free... I
"But he was completely
I totally can relate to your
you need to
They can do it because
Oh and btw my ex thought this
Well, sorry but stealing an olive or a grape is stealing...
Wowww wow wow, I was just
I get it
Seriously?
Seriously?
Thank you Ns1!
perhaps a stretch, but
Actually, I understand what
Yep.
Thanks BtrflyGrl xo