tougher for me this time around
tougher for me this time around
by now you would think I would be able to deal with this so much better...but this time around- he really made me feel like it was all my fault...told me he was removing the choker collar (as if I had him on a leash)
his reaction to my texts was really out of proportion and then he just went silent that day-(so I think I am blocked)
I know for sure I am blocked on his regular emails... because he set up some filters...after a huge misunderstanding and claimed he didnt have time to remove them and instead gave me this new email address.... that was sent to the email software he uses anyway...so that made no sense to me at all.
I guess I am most hurt because he was so beyond angry at me... and I feel like i did something wrong ... I dont feel i had him on some leash at all...more like the other way around.
just feeling really hurt- I guess before I just thought i was blocked this time I know for sure that I am. and for good.
and that hurts too that he keeps backupgirl and never does this to her at all. he will get mad at her but they dont not talk for days... that hurts
so - yea basically I am hurt...really hurting. and I guess this is like starting over for me... the tears again etc....
and i keep beating myself up that I knew better than to break NC. I guess too I just want to go back to the days when I would ignore him....
The one thing that is different with ME this go around is I am living my life... doing a lot, keeping busy etc...much different from the past. but when I stop....and realize he has ditched me it hurts.
It's no different than going
thanks sparrow- your right I
He is not normal, but more
exactly i do deserve so much
The silent treatment is the
sparrow- are we dealing with
Nah, it would seem though