Totally paranoid about dating new guys, but it's a GOOD thing !
Totally paranoid about dating new guys, but it's a GOOD thing !
Im now recovered from dating an NPDr.
Took a long time though.
Anyway my friends have had great success from using Match.com and OKCupid over the years.
(But not with eharmony (its private search feature is cheaters paradise))
So I have an ad up and have been getting a steady stream of emails.
I find myself being paranoid about a lot of the guys though.
Ive gone to great lengths to try and figure out who they really are before ever meeting.
And sad to say but Im aghast at how hedonistic/depraved/sociopathic the real men are when I find other posts theyve made online (via facebook, pick up boards, etc)
And lest anyone here think my personal ad is attracting these loathesome types, I make it clear that Im low key, conservative and spiritual. Not looking for crazy wild men.
For example, I started to really enjoy emails and conversations with a cute smart and sweet seeming guy.
But because I have dated not one but 2 Ns , Im leery of being swept away without seeing the real man Im dating.'
Turns out this nice guy was posting an ad online looking for girls who are hot and like to party and in return he would take them in a limo with "free booze" to a Kings of Leons concert.
UGH.
Anyway my paranoia is keeping me safe until I settle down with a good guy.
It's a jungle out there
I have
Match.com or any dating
eharmony vs match
Tried one of the dating
The biggest N I ever met was