I came across an article tonight on the internet, it had had to do with how to tell a con-artist..my narc, definitely filled the bill. I was in a state of shock in that he played the part of the broken hearted widower, and how much I was like his dead wife at the bweginning. Lies, lies, lies. I'd feel like such a fool, but I'm coming across countless websites, where innocent trusting people have been taken in and played con-artists narcs are legion. I can't remember ever having been lied so much and taken for such a merry ride. Argh! Never will I ever ben so trusting again. It's enough to make you feel like giving up on men.