For those having trouble with NC- advice straight from the Narc's mouth
For those having trouble with NC- advice straight from the Narc's mouth
Heading to bed and ready to start at day 1 of my own initiated NC, but wanted to pass on a few tidbits of info that might help people out there who are currently struggling with NC.
My ex-N is a self-aware narcissist. We were having a conversation a two days ago (not about us, but about someone else's situation) and here are the words straight from the N's mouth. I am copy/pasting this VERABTIM from an email:
"If someone pisses me off, I just erase them from my life. There is nothing worse than being ignored. People hate being ignored. Engaging in the back and forth and drama only feeds into them. Silence and not acknowledging their existence cuts them more than any words ever could. I laugh when they make a scene about it because I know just how much I'm affecting them. It's so entitled and demanding. I would never give someone the satisfaction of knowing that they affected me in any way."
Straight from the classic Narc's mouth. Just think about it for a bit. Take these words and turn it right back on them
Good night
What does it mean if they refuse to erase ANYONE from their life
This is so so true. I even
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Deecbee
they know what they are doing !!!!
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Yep, that was the best part
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They ARE scared of exposure!!
That is nothing short of
OMG decbee. OMG. This is
I promise you they do things
Feeding off of anguish
Feeding off the anguish
He'd prey on me when I was sad
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