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They think they are so f***ing great!

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#1 Sep 14 - 6PM
Pride and Shame
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They think they are so f***ing great!

It's only because they find new people over and over again to deceive, to dupe. Once they've been outed, the gig is up, but they just move on. For them, there's nothing to lose.

The repeated "success" with new women goes to their head. They think they are invincible. They know without a doubt that there will always be people who will fall for it.

I wonder what their hit rate is? I prefer, for my ego, to call mine a master manipulator, highly skilled. I bet he's got pretty good averages at this point in his life.

Plus, the marriages are ALL a sham. A cover to look good to the world. Behind the scenes doesn't look as good.

Doesn't it just make you feel ballistic? I feel like we are under siege. Women just drop like wounded flies into this board. Unreal.

Sep 14 - 7PM
Never Again
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so true

i swear. there wasn't anything this guy didn't brag about being the best at. but when it all comes down to it. there's nothing to them. empty shells.
Sep 14 - 7PM (Reply to #8)
Pride and Shame
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Bragging

OMG - the bragging. I can't even believe that I thought it was outrageous and funny way back in the beginning. The hours he spent on his personal hygiene, working on his tan (gag), planning his clothes. He even bragged about picking up a woman in a bar when we weren't together... at least he said we weren't together ... LOL ... we probably were together even then. Everything looks different now. Even me.
Sep 14 - 7PM
Sunafterrain
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Wow!

Under seige......what a way to put it! It is very frustrating to know that the psychopath gets away with his machinations and that there will be many more victims. Justice may never be served in this lifetime and if there is a God in heaven, it is my hope that these people get five seconds when judgment day comes and then off to hell they go. I don't feel a bit sorry for them either. They know exactly what they're doing. I hope that science evolves enough about psychopathy to give us some level of understanding how this condition develops and whether or not it's truly genetic. Right now they can diagnose a psychopath using MRI imaging. There is much interesting work being done in this arena, but I believe this condition of social predation is one that needs to be addressed and soon, as I feel it's completely out of control in our world.
Sep 14 - 6PM
RoseyRose
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I understand. I feeel what

I understand. I feeel what your saying. Am still stuck with mine and its hard everyday to face him knowing he slanders me behind my back to make himself look better and get attention. He is such an jerk. They aren't normal. Normal healthy people don't act this way function this way. I can't wait for the day I can get away from him.
Sep 14 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
Never Again
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girl......

RUN.
Sep 14 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
Pride and Shame
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RoseyRose

I hope you can get away from him some day. I hope you take some comfort in knowing what is going on, what you are dealing with. You can see him for what he is, and know that no matter what, you can't fix him. And figure out how to live your life around and in spite of that. My best to you -
Sep 14 - 7PM (Reply to #3)
RoseyRose
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I aam trying to stay strong

Thanks- Yeah I have realized and witnessed he lies to everyone manipulatives everyone. It is the axles all his relationships are based. If he can't manipulate you then " the relationship just isn't working" I wish I could wake up into a new life...
Sep 14 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
Never Again
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you can

you can wake up to a new life. trust me. i've been to the end and back of dealing with this. kids and all. cheating...std from HIM. the whole nine. You're worth it. A few years of pain....is much better than having you're life destroyed entirely by this monster.